It doesn't matter what I do or what i say to domestics. I went to court with a lawyer and I gave them my story why I've stop paying child support and all because my ex has been alienating me to see my child. They asked me when did I see him last and it was only once this year and I seen him at the fair. "Well at least you got to see him." And closed the court. If this is what a feminist culture looks like at domestics, I'm done and I'm giving my rights up. ...
Anon, I really need advice, this month I have a custody court date on the 12th. Her mother slapped me with a PFA that's scheduled for the 19th, she's claiming I knowingly broke the pfa the brother has on him and took my daughter to stay the night with my mom on Thanksgiving. However, thats a lie, and there's video to prove it. My apartment complex has cameras on each side of the hallway, and when I picked my daughter up that night we came straight home. I didn't leave at all that night. I'm demolished emotionally, thought about walking away because now their trying to press criminal charges on me. I am apparently not getting Christmas again this year. I haven't been apart of Christmas with her since she was two yrs old. It is our favorite holiday, but every year her mom files a PFA or restraining order claiming something that didn't happen and they listen to her. I'm at a loss for what to do. I can't afford an attorney, I miss my daughter, I even have messages where jess says she was going to lie and to give up my rights already. I've thought about taking my own life, but because I'm an extremely loyal person, walking away from my daughter I just can't do I'm trying to fight but have no one to turn to for advice or anything. Please give me some suggestions?
Anon. Sister, Hello! Looking for support/encouragement for my brother. He's been through hell and still roasting and the heat is getting to him, to all of us. The system is not about family, or what's right. They want money and I don't see anything changing for these father's and it is sad. Can anyone share positive outcomes they have had? We are in Berks County. Thank you!
Good morning all.
Its time for change, Its time to close ranks and move forward. Our children are prisoners, abused daily. I cant log in again and find out that another parent has given up the fight. I cant watch another man suffer while he shares his story that his son is gone forever, because But for the grace of God go I (and you). You don't need me, But I need you, We need you. Its only together that change is possible.
Pain is a great motivator, and I like you hurt every moment of everyday knowing our children are being abused.
Have you hurt enough yet?
Have your children been abused long enough?
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The South Dakota Fathers' Rights Movement Every day we hear stories of separation, pain and hopelessness right here in South Dakota. Through TFRM it is our goal to provide advice, support and awareness through each and every one of these devastating situations. Far too often family courts, along with society, assume one parent is more important than the other despite study after study showing the traumatic and damaging effects this separation has on our children. We are so appreciative to have been a part of this truly heart warming and touching moment and want to thank this family for inviting us to share this video. As beautiful as this moment is, we also know it is a rare one and far too many other children will not be so fortunate. This is why we’re here. -Jordan SD State Lead
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I went for 8 months with out being able to see my son who is now 2 years old. his mother told me he didn't know who I was, didn't need me, and didn't love me. this was his reaction to seeing me for the first time! it was the best feeling in the world. ...