Ok me and my girlfriend of seven years recently broke up on december 3rd. She refuses to let me see our kids. i was told that i have no rights to my kids. I missed my daughters first christmas. She says my son asks about me but yet still wont let me see them. its frustrating..especially when i found out id have to have myself deemed the father of my kids just to be able to see them on the weekends. Im sorry but weekends are not goos enough for me. I want input in my childrens lives. This is not right and these laws need to be updated. Why do we have to go through courts and long processes just to see our kids. They say they want whats in the best interest of the kids but its all bullshit.