Women are NOT the enemy! Anyone that thinks that they are is either:
1.) ignorant or
2.) so blinded with rage at the injustices you and your children have suffered that you are no longer capable of thinking rationally.
Trust me, I get it.
I was there myself displacing anger to all women for the actions of my wife and that of others that take advantage of the Family Court and the Violence Against Women’s Act (VAWA). But let me spell it out for you if you can’t on your own.
Women are NOT the enemy. Men are not morally superior to women. Neither are they morally inferior.
Women have the upper hand with VAWA and the current Family Court. They are allowed to destroy the lives of men and their relationships with their children at will.
On nothing more than a whim and a false statement and you will be removed from the life of your children and you will pay the person that destroyed you for doing it. It’s wrong, it’s unjust and it needs to stop.
But it isn’t women that are the problem. If the roles were reversed, men would be doing the same to women. Maybe you wouldn’t, but guaranteed as a whole men would be using the same advantages against women as the women are now using against us. We are no better. Men and women each need to be taken on the individual’s merits and actions.
You cannot blame an entire segment of society for the actions of a few! For crying out loud!
That’s exactly what the courts are doing to us fathers! They generalize us as violent and the mothers as the natural care givers and victims. Are you any better than the courts for now generalizing all women as evil?
As long as the system can be taken advantage of it will be. By men, women, blacks, whites, blondes, brunettes, Christians and Jews. No segment of society is free of selfishness. None are any better or worse than any other.
It’s not women that are the problem; hell 37% of this pages supporter’s are women who support our rights as fathers!
The problem is in the system that allows women to so easily take advantage of it. It is the system that needs fixed and where your anger should be directed.
Author: Thomas Fidler
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